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DO IT YOURSELF (DIY)

Home improvement refers to the practice of enhancing, constructing, and repairing aspects of one's residence independently, rather than engaging professional services or making substantial financial investments. 


Faced with the challenges of expensive and scarce sex and bondage equipment, compounded by the impact of Covid restrictions and the closure of local venues, we opted to acquire The Better Built Bondage Book* by Douglas Kent and embarked on renovating our personal home playroom adding wonderful DIY sex furniture.  *Unfortunately, this book is no longer in production. 

Build Your Own

DIY Kink Furniture

Furniture

DIY Sex Furniture - Home

Our St. Andrew's Cross
We made it. Kink Furniture

St. Andrew's Cross

My favorite piece of furniture. Sir and I built it ourselves, which made it that much more special to us.


Building your own kink and BDSM furniture can be incredibly rewarding—offering customization, discretion, and cost savings.


See Building Your Own Kink & BDSM Furniture Blog (below) includes a Sample Build Plan

Good Girl Chair
I refinished this chair. Kink Furniture

"Good Girl/Bad Girl" Chair

I purchased a chair from Craigslist for $10, stripped it, stained it, and Sir and I installed mounting brackets for different wands and vibrators. We also attach restraints.

Our massage/play table with restraints

Restraint Table Massage Table

I wanted a sturdy massage table that could be used for all kinds of fun (sensation play, impact play, electric play and wax play) we added restraints.

Our Toy Rack - Thrift shop find
Repurposed Entertainment Center

Toy Display Items

I purchased a display rack at a thrift store for our floggers, paddles, and other hanging implements of fun.


I converted a sturdy entertainment center into a display case for wands and vibrators, sensation toys, costumes for role play and scenes, violet wand and tens unit. Everything is clearly visible, always clean, charged and ready to go.


Toys & Pleasure Equipment

We enjoy shopping at local adult stores. Utilizing toys in our dynamic adds so much more fun.

Our floggers

Floggers

We have a few different floggers, some we have purchase and some I have made myself. I prefer thuddy to stingy but love sensual flogging.

Sharp and Stingy things: sensation toys

Sensation Toys

Definitely my favorite from meat claws, Warburton wheels, feathers, paddles, floggers, blindfolds, sensory deprivation, heat and cold.

Pervertables
belt, zip ties, rope, kitchen utensils

At-home Items that you didn't know could be so much fun

There are so many items around the house that can be used as pervertables... wooden spoons, spatula, zip ties, saran wrap, rope, ties, belts, clothes pins, credit cards, knives, hairbrush, paint brush, etc.

Esse Tantric Chair from Liberator

Sex Chaise

Esse Tantric Chair from Liberator - Daddy's New Favorite Chair


As an Affiliate Partner of Liberator, I earn a commission if you purchase using my link - see our Partners page.


Our Playroom

Our Playroom

Our Play Space

I have had so much fun designing and decorating our playroom. The walls are full of erotic art from local artists, including a commissioned piece I purchased for Sir.


We have a sex swing, St. Andrew's Cross, spanking bench, good-girl chair, and a tantric chair.


Home Sex Room/Dungeon

I would love to help other couples add a sex room to their home. I love interior design and home improvement projects.

My Blog

Videos

Easy Cross Build

DIY BDSM St. Andrews Cross for Cheap - KingkMaster

Here is a quick tutorial on creating your own St. Andrews Cross with fundamental tools on the cheap. 


It can be disassembled in 2 parts for easier storage or transport. You can also adjust the angle.  You can find the blueprint here: https://bit.ly/3AztFYd 


Notes: The anchors to the wall might be different in your home, since mine is made out of cinder block while in other locations it's most likely made out of wood. Just ask in the store where you are buying your supplies what the best solution is for your situation. (Just tell them you are hanging something heavy to the wall like a hammock or something ) The tie down anchors for the cuffs or ropes might vary on your location, in my case, they were too expensive or not that sturdy, so I used some drawer handles and a ring. 

Sunny Megatron

Sex With Sunny Megatron

 Diving Deep: The Making of a Showtime Original on Sex Education

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Evie Lupine - Toys from Home Depot - DIY Affordable Kink Gear

BDSM Toys from Home Depot? DIY & Affordable Kink Gear (Evie Lupine)

For YEARS ya'll have been requesting a video on affordable, cheap, easy, beginner-friendly, DIY kink toys. And finally here is your answer! What can you get on a trip to Home Depot aka Kink Depot? What are some good toys to start with -- and how can you use them in scenes? Whether you are into roleplay, petplay, impact, spanking, bondage or sensory deprivation there are toys in this list for you. Looking for thuddy impact? What about sting? Curious to try out something weird and wonderful? We got you.  Give customers a reason to do business with you.

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Home Dungeon Tour

Home Dungeon Tour

Evie Lupine's Home Dungeon Tour 


This is one of the first Evie videos, and one of the first videos I watched when I initially found the lifestyle.


It was a few years before we created our own home playroom, thank you Covid pandemic 😈❤️

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Exciting Content Collaboration Announcement with MyJoyToys!

Kink Your Way is honored to align with MyJoyToys—a global first in adult toy brands founded entirely on mental health—in a strategic content collaboration, supporting sexual wellness, empowered intimacy, and unapologetic self-discovery. 


At MyJoyToys, Kelly and her team go above and beyond to offer not just a tantalizing selection of adult toys, but also a heartfelt commitment to supporting mental health. They believe that a fulfilling and satisfying intimate life is a crucial part of your overall well-being, and that’s why they’ve curated a collection of products designed to do more than just stimulate your senses—they nurture your mental and emotional health too.


As the UK’s first online adult toy store dedicated to mental health empowerment, MyJoyToys is rewriting the narrative of pleasure and self-care. They are leading a new era, inviting everyone to join in the movement to break down the barriers and stigmas that too often leave people feeling isolated when it comes to mental health support.


Verified Global First - As of June 2025, MyJoyToys holds a verifiable first-mover position in the global market.  MyJoyToys has been independently verified as the first and only adult toy brand globally to be fully centered on mental health, emotional wellness, and survivor strength.  Public Summary Report 


Through this collaboration, I’m excited to share trusted tools and resources that support conscious exploration and personal liberation. When you shop through my affiliate links, you’re not only supporting my work—you’re investing in brands that center healing, authenticity, and joy. 


Let's create a world where mental health and intimate wellness are celebrated equally.


Disclosure: As an affiliate partner with MyJoyToys, I may earn a commission if you make a purchase through my affiliate links. This comes at no additional cost to you and helps support my work in creating shame-free, judgment-free spaces for exploration and empowerment.   

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