I'm Leann Herron, a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. I am the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the Creator and Host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast.
In my personal life, I am a married collared submissive, married to
I'm Leann Herron, a Kink-Aware Professional, Kink Coach, BDSM Coach, Transformation Coach for Women, and Educator. I am the Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann and Kink Your Way, and the Creator and Host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast.
In my personal life, I am a married collared submissive, married to my Sir in a monogamous relationship where we embrace our unique kink lifestyle. I have over 11 years of personal experience in the BDSM community.
I'm deeply passionate about sharing my knowledge and experience to help people live unapologetically kinky lives—lives that aren’t just successful, but electrifying and deeply fulfilling.
Resilience encompasses the capacity to effectively navigate and adjust in the presence of trauma, adversity, challenges, or intense stressors.
Submission serves as both my solace and my calling.
From Curiosity to Calling: How Kink Became My Path to Personal Liberation and Coaching
There’s a moment in everyone’s journey when you realize you
Resilience encompasses the capacity to effectively navigate and adjust in the presence of trauma, adversity, challenges, or intense stressors.
Submission serves as both my solace and my calling.
From Curiosity to Calling: How Kink Became My Path to Personal Liberation and Coaching
There’s a moment in everyone’s journey when you realize you’re not broken. You’re just buried. For me, that moment came with leather cuffs, a blindfold, and a safe word.
Before I ever identified as a kink coach and bdsm coach, I was a seeker. I had been doing the work: inner child healing, trauma recovery, nervous system regulation, and spiritual exploration. But something was still missing. I was navigating life from my head, not my body. And then came kink.
Kink entered my life not with a bang (well, maybe eventually!) but with a whisper of curiosity. I had been intrigued by BDSM, but like many women raised to be “good girls,” I filed it under taboo or maybe later. Later finally came when I realized that the shame I carried about desire, pleasure, and control was keeping me small, silent, and disconnected from my deepest self.
My first real experience with BDSM was life-changing. Not because it was perfect or polished, but because it cracked something open in me. In submission, I found power. In boundaries, I found freedom. In sensation, I found presence. And in communication, I found my voice.
Kink wasn’t just about sex. It was about reclaiming the parts of me I’d buried: the part that wanted, the part that roared, the part that delighted in surrender and demanded trust. It was sacred, healing, and wildly transformative.
As I explored deeper, I discovered the principles at the heart of healthy kink: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. These mirrored the very foundations of trauma recovery and personal growth. Consent, communication, and clear boundaries are not just kink skills. They’re life skills. Kink taught me to know my limits, express my needs, honor my body’s responses, and explore without shame.
Over time, friends and clients began asking questions. How did I get so confident? So embodied? So unapologetic in my desires? That’s when I knew my journey wasn’t just personal. It was meant to be shared.
Becoming a kink coach wasn’t just a career decision. It was a soul calling. I created Kink Your Way and began offering shame-free, trauma-informed coaching to women and couples who were curious, cautious, or craving deeper connection and pleasure.
Today, I coach individuals to awaken their desires, dismantle shame, and discover empowerment through exploration. Kink and BDSM are tools. They are not fixes or trends. They are doorways to healing, embodiment, and radical self-acceptance.
If you’ve ever felt like there’s more to you than what the world sees, you’re right. If you’ve ever felt afraid to explore because of what you were taught to fear, I see you. And if you’re ready to peel back the layers, shed the shame, and reclaim your sensual power, I’m here for that journey.
This path isn’t for everyone. But if it’s whispering to you like it did to me, maybe it’s your time too.
If this resonates with you, trust that inner spark. You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Whether you're brand new to kink or ready to deepen your exploration, I invite you to take the next step in your journey with support, clarity, and compassion.
Book a free 60-minute consultation session where we’ll talk about your desires, your questions, and how kink-informed coaching can help you feel more confident, connected, and empowered. This is a safe space—no shame, no pressure, just real conversation and personalized guidance.
You can also explore the growing collection of resources on my website, including blog posts, podcast episodes, and digital products. These tools are designed to help you awaken the power within and ignite your deepest desires in a way that feels authentic, embodied, and aligned with who you truly are.
You're allowed to want more. You're allowed to feel good. And you're absolutely allowed to be fully, unapologetically you.
Schedule your free session and begin the next chapter of your liberation.
Embracing Shame-Free Sex & Healthy Intimacy Masterclass
Overcoming Barriers to Healthy Intimacy
December 19, 2024 | Leann Herron
Dom Sub Dynamics Virtual Summit
Overcoming Mindset Hurdles On Your D/s Journey
February 20-24, 2023 | Leann Herron
The Gen X Woman's Roadmap to Fulfillment and Feminine Power: How BDSM and Kink Can Heal and Amplify the Divine Feminine
July 5, 2025 | By Leann Herron
Aleitress Elevate Together Magazine
Boss Women Network - Speed Mentoring Event (May 1, 2025)
June 11, 2025 | Leann Herron, Mentor
Why Women Shut Down to Pleasure - And How Kink Can Help That
June 5, 2025 | By Leann Herron
Creating Lasting Bonds: Nurturing Your D/s Dynamic with Consistency
May 5, 2025 | By Leann Herron
Trailblazers We Are Inspired By
Stories & Insights
January 8, 2025 | Meet Leann Herron
Home Yogi Practice Source Podcast
Creating Daily Habits: How Rituals Shape Our Lives
September 18, 2024 | Leann Herron
Overcoming Dom/Sub Mindset Struggles
Episode 16
January 29, 2024 | Leann Herron
Boosting Brain Health: Strategies to Enhance Cognitive Function and Mitigate Alzheimer's Risks
January 23, 2025 | By Leann Herron
The Benefits of Bridging Traditional and Alternative Healthcare through Integrative Practices
September 17, 2024 | By Leann Herron
Choose Change
September 15, 2024 | Leann Herron, Host
Leann Herron of Finding Resilience with Leann hosted the inaugural Choose Change panel event in Albuquerque, NM, featuring six exceptional alternative health professionals dedicated to promoting holistic wellness in the community. The panelists included: