Kink Your Way Leann Herron, CLC, CHC
Kink-Aware Professional ● Kink and BDSM Coach ● Educator ● Transformation Coach
Certified Life & Health Coach ● Podcast Host
From Vanilla to Happy Kinkster
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Hey there, I’m Leann.
Since 2016, I’ve been immersed in the kink and BDSM lifestyle—as a married, collared submissive to my Sir and as part of a loving, monogamous dynamic where curiosity, communication, and connection are at the heart of everything we do.
But I didn’t start here.
I came to this world after a 20-year vanilla marriage, feeling unfulfilled and disconnected from my deeper desires.
Everything changed when I discovered a local kink community that welcomed me with open arms.
I found freedom.
I found myself.
And I found a whole new way of experiencing intimacy and joy.
That’s why I created Kink Your Way—to guide others through their own journey from confusion to clarity, from shame to self-expression, from vanilla to vibrantly kinky.
So, is this space for you?
You’re in the right place if you:
- Feel the tug of desire for something more, but don’t know where to begin.
- Are curious about kink and BDSM but feel overwhelmed, unsure, or isolated.
- Want to explore your submissive or dominant side—but safely, smartly, and authentically.
- Crave deep connection and honest communication with your partner(s).
- Want to navigate kink while protecting your privacy in your vanilla life.
- Are tired of comparing your journey to others and ready to claim your unique path.
- Long to attend a dungeon or conference, but feel nervous or unprepared.
- Need guidance, not judgment—and support that meets you where you are.
- Desire a lifestyle where kink is integrated into your everyday joy.
- Seek balance between your responsibilities and your erotic freedom.
- Want to nourish your body, mind, and relationships along the way.
- Simply need to hear: “You’re not alone. I’ve got you.”
Whether you’re just beginning or ready to deepen your journey, I’m here to help you step into your kinky, empowered, happiest self—without shame, fear, or overwhelm.
Let’s make kink not just something you do—but a lifestyle that lights you up.
Is This for You?
You’re not just looking for answers—you’re craving relief.
Relief from the weight of doing it all alone.
From feeling like no one gets this part of your life.
You want to hear, “I’ve got you.”
You want someone in your corner who understands.
You’re ready to:
- Break free from the shame or obstacles keeping you from exploring your kinky truth.
- Learn how to navigate BDSM confidently, safely, and with integrity.
- Show up fully—authentically—for your partner(s).
- Embrace your kink identity while protecting your privacy in the vanilla world.
- Let go of comparison and define kink on your terms.
- Step into a dungeon or attend your first conference with confidence.
- Find your local community and feel seen, supported, and connected.
- Discover new skills and passions that light you up.
- Go from bored and boxed-in to bold, kinky, and free.
- Build a life where BDSM is more than play—it’s a fulfilling lifestyle.
- Balance the demands of everyday life with your desire for erotic exploration
- Deepen your relationships through strong boundaries and honest communication.
- Finally stop spinning your wheels and create a strategy that honors your life.
- Nourish your emotional and physical well-being as you explore your desires.
This isn’t just about kink—it’s about coming home to yourself.
It's about feeling calm after the chaos.
It's about not having to do it all on your own anymore.
And hearing someone say, “Let me help.”
How I Can Help You
I have over 11 years of personal experience in the BDSM lifestyle.
Throughout my years of education and training, I have built a wide array of skills that allow me to provide several services. I have helped many individuals and couples embrace their sexuality, improve their relationships, explore and embrace the kink and BDSM lifestyle, and develop powerful mindset shifts that unlocked the doors to opportunities, personal development, and growth.
Coaching:
My approach is uniquely designed for the kink and BDSM lifestyle.
I provide:
✅ Flexible, virtual, personalized one-on-one coaching that fits seamlessly into your life, no matter where you are in the world. My online sessions make it easy to get the support you need, on your schedule, without the hassle.
✅ Tailored to cater to the unique needs inherent in kink and BDSM dynamics.
✅ Tailored strategies to overcome obstacles, fears, guilt, shame, and uncertainty.
✅ Holistic strategies such as mindfulness, nutrition, and lifestyle adjustments that promote sustainable well-being and resilience.
✅ A supportive, non-judgmental space where people can explore, grow, and connect with their true self.
✅ Education, information, valuable insight, actionable strategies, and expert guidance to support individuals navigating their personal journey.
I specialize in helping individuals:
✅ Develop a deeper understanding of their desires and boundaries.
✅ Embrace and express their sexuality and kinks authentically.
✅ Confidently express their needs and preferences.
✅ Develop effective negotiation skills.
✅ Communicate openly and non-judgmentally.
✅ Explore kink and BDSM practices in a safe and informed manner.
These services are designed to foster self-awareness, communication, and consent-based exploration in a supportive environment.
I educate partners to communicate more effectively and deepen their understanding of each other.
This includes:
✅ Helping partners gain a deeper understanding of one another.
✅ Teaching partners how to express their needs and preferences with confidence.
✅ Guiding partners in communicating openly and without judgment.
✅ Supporting partners in authentically expressing their sexuality and kinks in a safe and respectful way.
These services foster connection, trust, and healthy communication, creating a stronger foundation for fulfilling relationships.
By participating in coaching sessions designed for the kink and BDSM lifestyle, you will gain clarity, confidence, and practical strategies to face your unique challenges directly. You will develop a deeper understanding of your desires and boundaries, enabling you to manage stress effectively, optimize your time management, and enhance communication in all areas of your life.
Together we'll create a personalized plan that embraces your individuality and empowers you to thrive in every aspect of your life.
Embrace Your Desires Today
Turn Challenges into Opportunities for Growth and Deeper Understanding
I'm Leann Herron, a kink-aware professional, kink and BDSM coach, transformation coach for women, educator, and podcast host. Having faced my own challenges, I understand the importance of personalized support.
How Personalized Support Transformed My Life
There was a time in my life when I felt complete disbelief - navigating major transitions that left me questioning my identity, purpose, and direction. Whether it was shifting careers, redefining relationships, starting over after divorce, or simply rediscovering who I am, I found myself searching for clarity and confidence in the face of uncertainty.
Through personalized support, I experienced firsthand the power of transformation. I learned to embrace change not as something to fear, but as an opportunity for growth and reinvention. With the right guidance, I was able to release self-doubt, reclaim my strength, and step into the next chapter of my life with resilience and purpose.
Finding a supportive local community allowed me to explore my desires in a safe and healthy way.
Flexible, virtual, personalized one-on-one coaching that fits seamlessly in to your life, no matter where you are in the world. My online sessions make it easy to get the support you need, on your schedule, without the hassle. With a holistic approach that nurtures the mind, body, and spirit, I combine my personal experience and specialized education to guide you on your transformative journey.
My journey through betrayal trauma inspired me to develop digital products, checklists, guides, and mini-courses that provide powerful tools that rebuild structure, encourage self-reflection, foster empowerment, and provide actional steps toward recovery and resilience.
Join me in cultivating resilience and embracing the full spectrum of your identity within the kink and BDSM lifestyle.
Ready to take the next step? Schedule a free 60-minute Total Transformation Discovery Session with me and let’s transform your journey into one of empowerment and fulfillment!
Embrace Your Kink: Your Path to Personal Empowerment
The "Big Deal"
Clients often choose to engage with a kink coach for various reasons.
Here are some common motivations that prompt individuals to seek the guidance of a kink coach:
Desire for Growth and Exploration:
Some clients are motivated by a desire for personal growth, self-discovery, and expanding their understanding of kink lifestyle
The "Big Deal"
Clients often choose to engage with a kink coach for various reasons.
Here are some common motivations that prompt individuals to seek the guidance of a kink coach:
Desire for Growth and Exploration:
Some clients are motivated by a desire for personal growth, self-discovery, and expanding their understanding of kink lifestyles, seeking a coach to accompany them on this journey. And that is a big deal.
Confusion and Uncertainty:
Clients may feel confused or uncertain about their desires, boundaries, or interests within the realm of kink and BDSM, seeking clarity and understanding.
Guilt and Shame:
Some individuals may experience feelings of guilt, shame, or stigma associated with their kink preferences, leading them to seek a non-judgmental space for acceptance and support.
Loneliness and Isolation:
Clients may feel isolated or misunderstood in their kink interests, desiring connection with a coach who can empathize with their experiences and provide a sense of community.
Fear and Anxiety:
Fear of judgment, rejection, or not being able to explore their kink desires safely and consensually can drive individuals to seek guidance from a kink coach to navigate these emotions.
Be The Change - Unleash Your Desires!
By embarking on a personal development and growth journey, you can unlock the doors to living a life filled with fulfillment and happiness in every aspect. It all starts with you, you are powerful and capable.
Are you...
- New to learning about kink and BDSM, but unsure where to start?
- Unsure how to talk
Be The Change - Unleash Your Desires!
By embarking on a personal development and growth journey, you can unlock the doors to living a life filled with fulfillment and happiness in every aspect. It all starts with you, you are powerful and capable.
Are you...
- New to learning about kink and BDSM, but unsure where to start?
- Unsure how to talk to your partner about kink?
- Unsure how to express your interest or passion about your desires and/or fetishes?
- Curious about where and how to find a partner?
- Interested in learning how to create an enriching BDSM lifestyle?
I am here to support you on your journey toward personal growth, and a deeper sense of fulfillment.
Be the catalyst for your own transformation. Embrace the power within you, pursue education, continually practice and acquire new skills, and unleash your true potential. Create a life that aligns with your dreams and aspirations!
Unlock Your True Desires: Navigate Your Kink Journey
Coaching Services - Explore Your Path to Pleasure!
Where are you on your journey?
- New to the lifestyle or have you been doing this for years?
- Single and looking to find a partner/partners, play partner(s), wanting to explore your interests?
- Are you curious and want more information?
I want to meet you where you are.
You can customize your kink.
Achieving a Happy, Healthy, Kinky BDSM Lifestyle
A kink-aware professional coach can help you:
- Discover your limits, voice, and boundaries.
- Define roles and rituals, and engage in open and honest communication.
- Understand the importance of consent, negotiations, and safewords to ensure a respectful and enjoyable experience.
- Discover how to as
Achieving a Happy, Healthy, Kinky BDSM Lifestyle
A kink-aware professional coach can help you:
- Discover your limits, voice, and boundaries.
- Define roles and rituals, and engage in open and honest communication.
- Understand the importance of consent, negotiations, and safewords to ensure a respectful and enjoyable experience.
- Discover how to ask for what you want so you can experience a change in the direction of your desired outcome.
- Know your power and be willing to receive what you want.
- Identify and communicate your interests in learning more.
- Identify and communicate your beliefs about sex and kink.
- Identify your wants, needs, and desires.
- Identify your compatibility for the relationship you are seeking.
- Deep dive into your desires and appetites.
- Discover what wants to be nourished.
- And so much more!
Specific Benefits for Dominant/submissive (D/s) Relationships in a BDSM Lifestyle
For individuals involved in a BDSM lifestyle, working with a kink-aware coach can offer unique benefits. The dynamics of Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships entail specific physical and emotional needs, which coaching can address effectively.
Enhanced
Specific Benefits for Dominant/submissive (D/s) Relationships in a BDSM Lifestyle
For individuals involved in a BDSM lifestyle, working with a kink-aware coach can offer unique benefits. The dynamics of Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships entail specific physical and emotional needs, which coaching can address effectively.
Enhanced Communication:
Coaching can improve communication skills, which are crucial in D/s relationships. Clear, respectful dialogue ensures that mutual boundaries and desires are understood and upheld.
Emotional Support:
Coaching provide emotional support tailored to the highs and lows experienced within BDSM dynamics. This can help both Dominants and submissives navigate their roles with confidence and emotional stability.
Physical Well-being:
Personalized wellness plans can address the physical demands of BDSM play, ensuring that both parties maintain peak physical health through proper nutrition, exercise, and recovery protocols.
Stress Management:
BDSM relationships can involve intense experiences that may lead to stress or anxiety. Holistic coaching offers relaxation techniques and stress management strategies to help mitigate these effects.
Personal Growth:
Both Dominants and submissives benefit from the self-awareness and personal growth fostered by a holistic approach. It helps in understanding personal limits, enhancing self-esteem, and promoting overall well-being.
Trust Building:
Coaching fosters a deeper level of trust within the D/s relationship by addressing the needs of both parties, ensuring that all interactions are safe, consensual, and respectful.
Coaching offers a transformative journey that can significantly enhance the lives of individuals, including those in a BDSM lifestyle. By addressing the interrelated aspects of health, it provides a more profound and sustainable pathway to well-being.