I'm Leann Herron, CLC, CHC, a full-time Certified Life Coach and Health Coach, Kink Aware Professional, BDSM Coach, Kink Coach, Kink Practitioner, and Educator. I am the founder of Finding Resilience with Leann, and also the creator and host of the Happiness On Tap podcast and the Kink Your Way Podcast.
In my personal life, I am a collared submissive and happily married to my Sir in a monogamous relationship where we embrace our unique kink lifestyle.
After years of immersion in this lifestyle, I have embraced my true self living shamelessly. My journey began in my late 40s, sparked by my exploration of BDSM and following the end of a sexless 20-year marriage.
Through my experiences, I have explored both Dominant and submissive roles, ultimately identifying as submissive. The world of Kink and BDSM has been a source of liberation for me, encompassing elements of sex, power exchange, and submission.
After embracing the BDSM lifestyle, I found a high level of satisfaction in both my personal and professional life. As a result, I became an advocate for kink positivity.
Resilience encompasses the capacity to effectively navigate and adjust in the presence of trauma, adversity, challenges, or intense stressors. Submission serves as both my solace and my calling. In surrendering to my role, I find solace in confiding all my concerns, anxieties, judgments, and vulnerabilities in my Sir. My true essence shines through when I am devoted to serving my Sir. While I have always been attuned to my sensual nature, being in a relationship with a sensual Dominant elevates my sense of fulfillment to unparalleled heights. My Sir embodies the qualities of a sensual Dominant, a caring Daddy Dom, and an exceptional guide in my journey. I consider myself fortunate to be under his care and guidance.
My healing journey started with intense struggles and overwhelming challenges, pushing me to embark on a courageous path of self-exploration and profound personal development. It began with a need to focus on my health and mental health after experiencing PTSD symptoms "Trauma Soup" from a trauma 20+ years earlier, triggered in my professional capacity in the legal field. Frustrated by the limitations of conventional medicine, I discovered the transformative power of mindset shifts, self-care practices, and intentional living on my overall well-being.
I battled through Life and Health struggles with all my strength.
I weathered the storms of Intimacy and Relationship trials and emerged stronger.
I soared to new heights in my Career and Business surpassing my own expectations.
I transformed my relationship with Money creating abundance and prosperity.
I deepened my Spirituality finding profound peace and purpose.
This will be a short About Me video and I hope you will learn something about me and maybe about yourself.
I have been in the lifestyle since 2016, constantly learning and growing. I am a collared submissive married to my Sir, we are a monogamous couple.
As an advocate for personal growth, empowerment, and sexual liberation, I bring my expertise and passion to create a safe and inclusive space for individuals to explore their desires and embrace alternative lifestyles. I deeply understand the transformative power of self-discovery and personal expression. My goal is to help individuals unlock their true potential and live authentically. I take a compassionate and non-judgmental approach, fostering an environment where individuals can freely explore their desires, boundaries, and curiosities.
As a certified life coach and health coach and educator, I guide individuals on a journey of self-discovery, empowering them to embrace their unique desires and preferences. Through my coaching programs and podcast episodes, I provide valuable insights, practical strategies, and unwavering support to help individuals navigate their journeys. With a genuine passion for promoting open and honest conversations about kink and alternative lifestyles, I am committed to breaking down barriers and challenging societal norms. I believe that consensual exploration of desires can lead to personal growth, enhanced intimacy, and a more fulfilling life. My coaching services are offered through my coaching business, Finding Resilience with Leann.
Whether you're a seasoned kink enthusiast or just beginning to explore alternative lifestyles, I am here to guide and support you on your journey, help you embrace your desires, break free from societal constraints, and discover the power of sexual liberation. Explore Your Path to Pleasure!
Embracing Shame-Free Sex & Healthy Intimacy Masterclass
December 19, 2024
Overcoming Barriers to Healthy Intimacy
Leann Herron, Presenter/Educator
Dom Sub Dynamics Virtual Summit
February 20-24, 2023
Overcoming Mindset Hurdles On Your D/s Journey
Leann Herron, Presenter Educator
Trailblazers We Are Inspired By
Stories & Insights - January 8, 2025
Hidden Gems: Meet Leann Herron of Finding Resilience with Leann
We discussed:
Stories & Insights - December 18, 2024
Leann Herron
Meet Leann Herron
"We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Leann herron a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below"
We discussed:
Shamelessly Living the Kinky Life of Your Dreams - November 16, 2024
By Leann Herron, BDSM & Kink Practitioner and Educator
In a world where individuality is often celebrated yet quietly judged, embracing your true self – kinks and all – can feel daunting. But here’s the secret: the power to live authentically, boldly, and shamelessly is yours. Exploring and enjoying a kinky lifestyle is not just about pleasure; it’s about self-expression, connection, and liberation. Here is how you can begin to explore and celebrate the kinky side of your dream life:
1. Embrace Self-Awareness Without Shame
2. Educate Yourself and Others
3. Build Consent-Driven Connections
4. Let Go of Judgment—From Yourself and Others
5. Celebrate Your Journey
6. Advocate for Kink Positivity
Living Without an Apology
Living shamelessly means showing up for yourself every day. It’s about letting go of societal expectations and crafting a life where your desires are honored, your boundaries respected, and your individuality celebrated.
The kinky life of your dreams is within reach—it just takes courage, community, and a commitment to self-love. So, dive in. Explore the edges of your desires and live boldly.
After all, there’s nothing more liberating than being unapologetically you.
Finding Your Why - October 17, 2024
Leann Herron
Meet Leann Herron
"We're excited to introduce you to the always interesting and insightful Leann Herron. We hope you'll enjoy our conversation with Leann"
We discussed:
SmutLovers.org - Smut Source
Achieving Kink Goals
Leann Herron
I had the pleasure of submitting an article to SmutLovers.org - Smut Source. This topic means a lot of different things to me as a submissive, in my submission to my Sir, in my education goals as a Kink Aware Professional, for my business, and for my community.
All Things Smut
Leann Herron
March 15, 2024
It’s time for Season 2, Episode 7 of Smut Lovers: The Podcast. This week we are with Podcaster Leann Herron talking about all things smut!
Leann is not only a reader and kinkster at heart but an amazing podcaster who is joining us this week on Smut Lovers: The Podcast. As the creator of both the Kink Your Way and Happiness on Tap podcasts Leann spreads joy in everything she does. Host - Nikki Rome
Overcoming Dom/Sub Mindset Struggles
Leann Herron
January 29, 2024
Episode 16 - How did this sub go from a sexless marriage to embracing the BDSM lifestyle? Leann Herron's journey is nothing short of inspiring. Leann is a kink-knowledgeable relationship coach, and also a Dom Sub Living student!
In this episode she dishes with Alesandra on safe kink exploration, overcoming mindset hurdles, and practical tips for mastering the Dom/sub dynamic. Listen to this intimate interview to delve deeper into Leann's valuable insights and overcome your own struggles on your journey of understanding and mastering D/s relationships. Host - Alesandra Madison
Home Yogi Practice Source Podcast
Creating Daily Habits: How Rituals Shape Our Lives
Leann Herron
September 18, 2024
In this insightful conversation, we explore the power of daily habits and rituals. Leann Herron, a certified life and health coach, shares her journey and how she uses intentional practices to set the tone for her day. From gratitude rituals to morning routines, discover how habits shape our lives and contribute to overall well-being. Tune in for practical tips and inspiration to create your own empowering rituals.
Join Leann Herron, Certified Life Coach and Health Coach and founder of Finding Resilience with Leann, as she dives deep into personal transformation, resilience, and self-care. Leann shares her inspiring journey and reveals how she helps clients turn life's transitions into triumphs. Whether you're navigating a career change, relationship challenges, or personal growth, Leann’s insights will empower you to embrace life with grace and confidence. Host - Christine Stump
Why Shame, Fear, and Isolation Surround Kink, BDSM, and Sex
Leann Herron
January 23, 2025
From the Queen of Kink Herself... Leann Herron’s Latest Blog Is Here!
Ready to be tied up in thought? 😉
We’ve got something special for you this week from the Queen of Kink herself, Leann Herron. Leann’s new blog is here, and it’s bound to make you rethink everything you thought you knew about kink, BDSM, and breaking free from the chains of shame and fear.
In this sizzling post, Leann pulls back the curtain on the emotional struggles that often surround kink, BDSM, and sex, showing you how to embrace your desires and unlock your true, authentic self. Trust us, this one will have you untangling your thoughts... and maybe even your sheets. 😉
Head over to our blog and let Leann guide you through how to shed those mental restraints and explore your deepest desires with confidence. She’s here to help you free your mind (and your body) from the bonds that hold you back.
Don’t miss out—let’s break free together. Founder Kelly of MyJoyToys
Boosting Brain Health: Strategies to Enhance Cognitive Function and Mitigate Alzheimer's Risks
Guest article from findingresiliencewithleann.com
January 23, 2025
Alzheimer’s, a progressive, degenerative disorder that attacks the brain’s nerve cells, is an irreversible condition that takes a toll on patients, caregivers, healthcare providers, and loved ones. It is a leading cause of death among older adults, and about 1 in 3 seniors die from Alzheimer’s or another dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association.
Taking proactive steps toward maintaining brain health is a vital aspect of overall well-being. As people age, cognitive decline and diseases like Alzheimer’s become significant concerns, but there are several lifestyle changes and practices that can help boost cognitive health and potentially reduce the risk of such conditions. According to the 2024 Lancet Commission report on dementia prevention, intervention, and care, 45% of dementia cases may be preventable by addressing modifiable risk factors. Jason Lewis, Founder of Strong Well.
Reclaim Your Peace: 10 Mental Health Tips
Guest Writer: Leann Herron of Finding Resilience with Leann
January 13, 2025
Introducing Guest Blogger Leann Herron
We are excited to welcome Leann Herron, Certified Life and Health Coach, Founder of Finding Resilience with Leann, and Host of the Happiness On Tap Podcast, as our Guest Blogger of the Week! Leann coaches women to overcome stress and burnout by transforming habits into effortless routines.
Thank you, Leann, for sharing your expertise and insights with our community! Kelly, Founder of MyJoyToys
The Benefits of Bridging Traditional and Alternative Healthcare through Integrative Practices
Guest article from findingresiliencewithleann.com
September 17, 2024
Our health and wellness have never been more important, in today’s fast-paced world. While traditional healthcare has provided us with robust systems for diagnosing and treating illnesses, there has been a growing interest in alternative and complementary medicine. Integrative healthcare combines the best of both worlds, offering a holistic approach that addresses the body, mind, and spirit. Jason Lewis, Founder of Strong Well
Build Resilience: Take Control of Your Health
Guest Writer: Leann Herron of Finding Resilience with Leann
December 12, 2023
I first connected with Leann Herron through her Thriving Women's Circle. New to Albuquerque and just looking to meet people, I had no idea where saying yes to this event would lead...
Leann has a way of making you feel like an old friend. Not only did I get the best rundown of the highlights of Albuquerque and a guided meditation, but I also got an enthusiastic yes to her coming to my own workshop and an invitation to a local arts fair.
As a passionate supporter of small businesses, Leann has already done so much for my own business. I've been featured on her Happiness On Tap podcast in the episode Unlocking the Power of Movement, as well as the accompanying blog, Why A High Pain Tolerance Actually Makes You Suffer More Pain, and she even got me a booth next to hers for a Trunk-Or-Treat event where I offered free scoliosis screens for kids.
It is now my pleasure to feature Leann on my website as a trusted community resource because we could all do with building more resilience. Dr. Julia Niwinski, PT, DPT, Founder of Ascension Physio.
Looking for a Path to Change?
Guest Writer: Leann Herron of Finding Resilience with Leann
September 12, 2023
Leann is an awesome coach in my community, and I'm so glad she was willing to write a guest post for me! If you've read my story, you know that I took a drastic jump. That would not have been possible without hiring a career coach. I still talk to my coach regularly as I navigate life as a business owner. Read her story and consider hiring a career coach if you can resonate with either of our stories. I can help you find room in the budget for those services. Without further ado, here's Leann! Kristin Wade, Founder of Fiscal Bliss Financial Coaching
Ancient Wisdom for Modern Wellness - Dr. Andrew Moser, DOM, MBA
Happiness On Tap Podcast
Finding Resilience with Leann
October 12, 2024
This past week, Finding Resilience with Leann hosted Dr. Andrew Moser, DOM, MBA with Sacred Patterns Acupuncture on the Happiness on Tap podcast. It was an absolute blast and honor to be featured as a guest! During the podcast, we discussed:
As you can see, we discussed a great deal of information! There is so much more that can be talked about.
A big thank you again to Leann for hosting and the opportunity to talk about all the amazing aspects of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) and acupuncture! Dr. Andrew Moser, DOM, MBA
Choose Change
Leann Herron of Finding Resilience with Leann
September 15, 2024
Recently, Leann Herron of Finding Resilience with Leann hosted the inaugural Choose Change panel event in Albuquerque, NM, featuring six exceptional alternative health professionals dedicated to promoting holistic wellness in the community. The panelists included:
During the event, each expert shared valuable insights into their respective fields, emphasizing a comprehensive approach to optimal health and well-being. Attendees enjoyed raffle prizes, and participants had the opportunity to experience auricular acupuncture. Christine Michel enhanced the session with her unique tuning fork specialty, providing a memorable experience for all. A heartfelt thank you to Leann Herron for organizing this impactful event, to all the presenters for their expertise, and to everyone who attended and engaged. We look forward to participating in future events and witnessing the continued growth and success of the alternative health professional community in Albuquerque! Dr. Andrew Moser, DOM, MBA
BDSM is an umbrella term for a variety of (often erotic) practices or roleplaying; it is an acronym representing three components:
More often than not, other 'deviant' sexual practices are also considered to be part of BDSM.
BDSM is a consensual activity respecting the fundamental rights of every human being involved; this separates it from sexual and domestic abuse.
The key principles of consent in kink and BDSM practices are essential for ensuring safety, trust, and mutual enjoyment.
Here are some of the most crucial principles: