More About Me and my Kinky background

Kink Background  

I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years, constantly learning and growing in my journey.  I am a collared submissive married to my Sir, we are a monogamous couple. I am passionate about the lifestyle, especially about sharing my passion, experience and knowledge with others in the community and/or new to the lifestyle. 

When I started therapy for ptsd, anxiety and panic I immediately disclosed that I am in the lifestyle because I wanted my therapist to be aware that I may present with marks and my vocabulary may include words not commonly used. She immediately informed me that she wasn't knowledgeable about kink and BDSM or the lifestyle, but curious to understand and welcoming of the conversations we shared. I felt I hit the jackpot; I know most people struggle with finding kink aware professionals.

Kink Your Way is about acknowledging that You can customize your kink. Be safe, knowledgeable, know your wants, needs and desires, know your limits and boundaries and expect your partner or partners to respect your safe word. Consent is required by all involved in a scene or play. Kink can be dangerous, know your kink.

My purpose is to provide education and coaching services to people who are curious, currently practicing, or need health and life coaching in all areas of life from a knowledgeable kink professional, and provide resources to other kink professionals. I also want to help people know what works and how they can start living an amazing, kinky lifestyle - in and out of the bedroom.

Collar from Eternity Collars www.eternitycollars.com

 My Resilience 

Resilience is the ability to process and adapt well in the face of trauma, tragedy, adversity, threats, or a significant source of stress. 

Submission is release and my purpose.  I am able to bring all of my problems, fears, judgment, and shame to Sir. I am my best self when I am in service to my Sir. I have always been a sensualist but being in a relationship with a sensual Dominant is a whole other level of bliss for me. My Sir is a sensual Dominant, a Daddy Dom and the bestest Dom. I'm a lucky Ladybug.

After suffering from anxiety, panic and post-traumatic stress in 2020 and 2021, I was drowning in PTSD soup. My main issues were brain fog, memory loss, panic, and fear. Also at this time Covid restrictions were in full force. Most companies were allowing their staff to work from home. We were not. I requested accommodations for my PTSD and it was denied.

I was working in the legal field and was doubting my skills, constantly doubting if I had completed my critical tasks. Everyday tasks were taking me twice the amount of time because the fog was so thick, I couldn't remember doing things. The trauma I suffered in late 2019 and 2020 was a trauma trigger from 25 years earlier that was never treated. I finally decided to resign and went to work on healing from my trauma.

I spent months and months researching, creating a meditation practice, learning about ways to improve the things that were fueling self-doubt, overwhelm, anxiety and stress. I began practicing relaxation techniques, spending time grounding in nature, and started treatment through individual therapy and other holistic wellness services. I was blessed with the ability to take time to heal through self-love, meditation, painting, and journaling. 

 My purpose is to help individuals and groups improve their daily lives and health, cope better with life's challenges, reduce stress, and become the best most authentic versions of themselves. 

Through education, personal support, motivation and guidance I enable people to consistently maintain a sustainable lifestyle change.

 BDSM & Kink Friendly Life and Health Coaching 

My Relationship Coaching, Life Coaching and Health Coaching is only offered through my business Finding Resilience with Leann LLC.  Coaching sessions are available in person in the Greater Albuquerque area or worldwide - virtually anywhere via Zoom, Duo or phone. FREE Initial Consultation required. 

I am a Kink-Aware Professional, BDSM Coach and Kink Educator. New or experienced clients will find a safe and open space to discuss their most intimate concerns.  

Kink aware professionals have specialized knowledge of the diverse ways in which people choose to explore their sexuality and gender. This enables the person to feel accepted and understood, without judgment, and free from unnecessary questioning to clarify their understanding.

A kink aware Coach has knowledge and experience around diverse lifestyles. This makes seeking support far less complicated and free from judgement. 

You may find that a kink aware Coach is able to direct you to some services and information you were previously unaware of and can also offer support around any conflicting feelings you are experiencing, which may be related to your lifestyle or desired lifestyle.

 Things I love 

I am all about education. I have spent many years investing in my personal growth through education and learning from others.

• I LOVE BDSM/KINK
• LOVE being in service to my Sir
• I love research and education - if I come across a term or word that I don't know, I look it up and do my best to gain an understanding, I take classes and work to continue my lifetime education.
• I love reading erotica 
• I love researching topics, following Sex Educators, listening to podcasts, watching videos and supporting educators and influencers when I can
• I am a certified Life, Relationship and Health Coach
• I am a BDSM Coach
• I am a Kink Educator
• I love inspiring people to be their most authentic self

I love sharing my story. If my story can help one person..great, if I can help many..FANTASTIC