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If you’ve found your way here, chances are you’ve felt the pull to explore a deeper, more authentic side of yourself—one that craves freedom, self-expression, and connection without shame.
Kink Your Way is a space for curious, conscious, and courageous conversations about sexuality, relationships, and identity. Here, we break away from limiting beliefs and old narratives, and instead, celebrate the liberation that comes from fully embracing who you are—kinks, desires, boundaries, and all.
At Kink Your Way, we believe in shame-free, judgment-free exploration as a pathway to deeper authenticity and self-empowerment. This is a space where you’re invited to live fully, feel deeply, and embrace every part of who you are, without apology. Our mission is to support you in coming home to yourself through conscious kink, holistic healing, and radical self-acceptance.
Through one-on-one coaching, blogs, and my podcast, I offer real-world tools, heart-centered insight, and unwavering support to help you live authentically and connect more deeply—with yourself and others. This isn’t just about kink; it’s about reclaiming your voice, your power, and your pleasure.
At Kink Your Way and Finding Resilience with Leann, I help individuals break free from the societal scripts that keep us small. Because when you are safe to explore, you are free to transform.
This isn’t about fitting into someone else’s mold. It’s about kinking your way—on your own terms, in your own time, with your own voice leading the way.
Let’s explore your path to pleasure, power, and purpose—together.
Hey there, I’m Leann.
Since 2016, I’ve been immersed in the kink and BDSM lifestyle, as a married, collared submissive to my Sir and as part of a loving, monogamous dynamic where curiosity, communication, and connection are at the heart of everything we do.
But I didn’t start here.
My journey to becoming a Kink and BDSM coach and educator began with a deeply personal transformation following the end of a twenty-year marriage. I had been raised with traditional values, modeled after the 1950s housewife archetype, where self-sacrifice was expected, and my own needs were always secondary. For much of my life, I didn’t know how to advocate for myself. I knew how to take care of others, but I had never been taught how to communicate my own needs, wants, or desires.
Our marriage lacked emotional and physical intimacy, and after the divorce, I found myself living alone for the first time. With my children grown and independent, I was finally able to pause and reflect. I embarked on a journey of self-discovery, asking myself meaningful questions: Who am I beyond being a wife and mother? What brings me joy? What kind of connection do I want in a partner? What do I value, and what am I no longer willing to compromise? Most importantly, I had to learn how to truly love and honor myself before I could offer that love to someone else.
Eventually, I began dating again and met someone who introduced me to the world of kink and BDSM. Though I had little knowledge at the time, I was deeply curious. With his support, I was introduced to a local community where I could explore safely and consensually. As a lifelong learner, I immersed myself in research, workshops, and educational experiences. What I discovered was profoundly eye-opening.
Contrary to common misconceptions, I found that the foundation of the BDSM lifestyle is built on trust, communication, consent, negotiation, and safety. Each of these principles is practiced with intention and depth, allowing for meaningful, empowering, and safe experiences. I explored different dynamics and learned to clearly articulate my boundaries, needs, and desires. For the first time, I understood what it meant to fully own my pleasure, and to do so unapologetically.
I found freedom.
I found myself.
And I found a whole new way of experiencing intimacy and joy.
That transformative experience not only healed parts of me but also lit a fire within me to help others do the same. Today, I support others on their journey, whether they’re exploring kink for the first time or looking to deepen their understanding within their relationships. My work is rooted in empowerment, education, and creating safe, shame-free spaces for exploration and growth.
In my personal life, I am a married collared submissive, married to my Sir in a monogamous relationship where we embrace our unique kink lifestyle. I have over 11 years of personal experience in the BDSM community.
That’s why I created Kink Your Way, to guide others through their journey from confusion to clarity, from shame to self-expression, from vanilla to vibrantly kinky.
Whether you’re just beginning or ready to deepen your journey, I’m here to help you step into your kinky, empowered, happiest self, without shame, fear, or overwhelm.
Let’s make kink not just something you do, but a lifestyle that lights you up.
I have over 11 years of personal experience in the BDSM lifestyle.
Over the years, through education, training, and real-world experience, I’ve built a powerful set of skills that allow me to offer a range of services.
I’ve guided individuals and couples in embracing their sexuality, deepening their relationships, exploring the kink and BDSM lifestyle with confidence, and making mindset shifts that opened doors to growth, self-awareness, and exciting new possibilities.
Coaching:
My approach is uniquely designed for the kink and BDSM lifestyle.
I provide:
✅ Flexible, virtual, personalized one-on-one coaching that fits seamlessly into your life, no matter where you are in the world. My online sessions make it easy to get the support you need, on your schedule, without the hassle.
✅ Tailored to cater to the unique needs inherent in kink and BDSM dynamics.
✅ Tailored strategies to overcome obstacles, fears, guilt, shame, and uncertainty.
✅ Holistic strategies such as mindfulness, nutrition, and lifestyle adjustments that promote sustainable well-being and resilience.
✅ A supportive, non-judgmental space where people can explore, grow, and connect with their true self.
✅ Education, information, valuable insight, actionable strategies, and expert guidance to support individuals navigating their personal journey.
I specialize in helping individuals:
✅ Develop a deeper understanding of their desires and boundaries.
✅ Embrace and express their sexuality and kinks authentically.
✅ Confidently express their needs and preferences.
✅ Develop effective negotiation skills.
✅ Communicate openly and non-judgmentally.
✅ Explore kink and BDSM practices in a safe and informed manner.
These services are designed to foster self-awareness, communication, and consent-based exploration in a supportive environment.
I educate partners to communicate more effectively and deepen their understanding of each other.
This includes:
✅ Helping partners gain a deeper understanding of one another.
✅ Teaching partners how to express their needs and preferences with confidence.
✅ Guiding partners in communicating openly and without judgment.
✅ Supporting partners in authentically expressing their sexuality and kinks in a safe and respectful way.
These services foster connection, trust, and healthy communication, creating a stronger foundation for fulfilling relationships.
By participating in coaching sessions designed for the kink and BDSM lifestyle, you will gain clarity, confidence, and practical strategies to face your unique challenges directly. You will develop a deeper understanding of your desires and boundaries, enabling you to manage stress effectively, optimize your time management, and enhance communication in all areas of your life.
Together we'll create a personalized plan that embraces your individuality and empowers you to thrive in every aspect of your life.
You’re ready to:
Feeling like no one gets this part of your life?
You want to hear, “I’ve got you.”
You want someone in your corner who understands.
This isn’t just about kink, it’s about coming home to yourself.
Achieving a Happy, Healthy, Kinky BDSM Lifestyle
A kink and BDSM coach can help you:
Achieving a Happy, Healthy, Kinky BDSM Lifestyle
A kink and BDSM coach can help you:
Benefits for Dominant/submissive (D/s) Relationships in a BDSM Lifestyle
For individuals involved in a BDSM lifestyle, working with a kink-aware, trauma-informed, kink and BDSM coach can offer unique benefits. The dynamics of Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships entail specific physical and emotional needs, which coaching can addres
Benefits for Dominant/submissive (D/s) Relationships in a BDSM Lifestyle
For individuals involved in a BDSM lifestyle, working with a kink-aware, trauma-informed, kink and BDSM coach can offer unique benefits. The dynamics of Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships entail specific physical and emotional needs, which coaching can address effectively.
Enhanced Communication:
Coaching can improve communication skills, which are crucial in D/s relationships. Clear, respectful dialogue ensures that mutual boundaries and desires are understood and upheld.
Emotional Support:
Coaching provide emotional support tailored to the highs and lows experienced within BDSM dynamics. This can help both Dominants and submissives navigate their roles with confidence and emotional stability.
Physical Well-being:
Personalized wellness plans can address the physical demands of BDSM play, ensuring that both parties maintain peak physical health through proper nutrition, exercise, and recovery protocols.
Stress Management:
BDSM relationships can involve intense experiences that may lead to stress or anxiety. Holistic coaching offers relaxation techniques and stress management strategies to help mitigate these effects.
Personal Growth:
Both Dominants and submissives benefit from the self-awareness and personal growth fostered by a holistic approach. It helps in understanding personal limits, enhancing self-esteem, and promoting overall well-being.
Trust Building:
Coaching fosters a deeper level of trust within the D/s relationship by addressing the needs of both parties, ensuring that all interactions are safe, consensual, and respectful.
Coaching offers a transformative journey that can significantly enhance the lives of individuals, including those in a BDSM lifestyle. By addressing the interrelated aspects of health, it provides a more profound and sustainable pathway to well-being.
Coaching Services - Explore Your Path to Pleasure!
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Unlock your authentic self - start your journey today! With personalized coaching, you can empower your desires, enhance your relationships, and thrive in your unique lifestyle.
Specializing in Kink and BDSM Lifestyles
Where are you on your journe
Coaching Services - Explore Your Path to Pleasure!
Personalized One-on-One Private Coaching
Unlock your authentic self - start your journey today! With personalized coaching, you can empower your desires, enhance your relationships, and thrive in your unique lifestyle.
Specializing in Kink and BDSM Lifestyles
Where are you on your journey?
I want to meet you where you are.
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